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  • Your Marriage Teaches Your Children These Important Lessons

    Your Marriage Teaches Your Children These Important Lessons

    Washing dishes was a part of my daily chore growing up.  My grandparents didn’t have a lot of money but we got a lot of love.  Lots of make shifting had happened and one of them is using a torn cloth from an old t-shirt to wash dishes.  Hey, we made do with what we could afford.

    Then here came the good old sponge.   I was in such joy when I could use a sponge to wash dishes because it soaked up every ounce of soap making soap suds.  This was my playground while washing dishes and I can remember my grandmother saying “stop wasting the water” because I would let the pipe run so I could play with the spongy soap sud.

    Children are like sponges.  They soak up everything, every word, every action they encounter.  My wife and I got a shocker when our son Tyler was in his very early years.  We were watching a movie we thought was free from cursing but was not.  We ended up turning off the movie as we heard that first curse word. But before we could turn it off we heard the same curse word from Tyler’s mouth.  It was like a high voltage shock running through Michelle and I as we steered at each other in dismay.  How did Tyler even hear this from where he was, and how at that young age did he even know to repeat it.  Then we remembered how spongy they are.  They learn so much from our marriages.  Here are some very important lessons they learn from your marriage.

    Order And Priority

    Chaos is a killer, even for married couples.  Where there is no order there is no priority.  When anything goes, everything goes.  Love goes.  Peace goes.  Joy goes.  Harmony goes out of the marriage.  When cellphone use takes the place of time spent together, cellphone use takes the place of the time spent with children and teaches them to adopt the same chaos and disorder in their future marriage and family.

    Spiritual Discipline

    It is a fact that any married couple who set time to spend together praying and reading God’s word, reap a greater and more peaceful marriage relationship.  A child seeing this will most likely learn and choose that same important discipline into their marriage and family.

    Love In Action

    Many say “I love you” but fail to show “I really love you.”  There are many cases where parents tell their children they love them but do not show it much.  I saw love more than I heard love growing up and it stuck with me like crazy glue and has driven me to really showing Michelle love.  When a child hears the word love but does not see it, confusion develops in his mind and makes it hard for him to show love also.

    Respect Shown To Each Other

    As a child I could never speak out of place to any adult.  That adult would scold me and then my grandparents would spank me.  The heights of respect I saw my grands show to each other was beyond comprehension.  It is only doing good for the children when they see a husband and wife being respectful in action and speech.  To the contrary, it is a domino effect of disrespect from a child who only sees disrespect shown by husband to wife or wife to husband.

    Conflict’s Reality

    Your child will believe marriage will never have a moment of conflict when they never ever see husband and wife manage conflict.  The key is how it is managed rather than avoiding it to think you are saving the child.  It can be good for the child to see a bit of conflict handled with love and respect rather so they will know the reality of marriage relationships having conflict.  A realistic issue handled well between husband and wife is much better than a false sense of life shown to a child by a husband and wife.

    These are some key lessons to think about as husband and wife to teach to your children.  They will need it as they grow into husbands and wives also.  Parenting is not a science but there is a guide for great parenting found in the Bible.  God created family and gave instructions for teaching children the way they should grow well.  Enjoy your journey in marriage as you model the good life of marriage for your children.  They will need it even more as they become husbands and wives also.  Watch where you are walking because your children are following in your footsteps.

    “TRAIN UP A CHILD IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO AND WHEN HE GETS OLD HE WILL NEVER DEPART FROM HIM” Proverbs 22:6

    About The Author

    Carim Hyatt

    Carim Hyatt was born and raised partially in Jamaica, West Indies.  He is one of seven children from the Hyatt family and has grown into a great man of God.  Carim had the luxury of seeing his grandparents model a Christian family life while portraying a marriage in God’s image.  Carim had his mother in his life also and learned a great deal about values and wisdom.

    Carim’s passion is marriage and family. He and his wife Michelle, are hosts of MARRIAGE IN A MINUTE, a radio talk show reaching all over the world.   He has authored two books, The importance of Salvation and Staying Married Becoming One Flesh.   His journey has taken him from Insurance adjuster to minister through writing and public speaking.  Carim leads men’s ministries, married couples lifegroups, praise and worship along with many other areas of ministry as God has led him.  Carim and his beautiful wife Michelle have appeared on Television programs , namely TBN, speaking about marriage and family.  He is a great motivator, mentor and loves the Lord with all his heart.  His passion is to see every marriage go the long haul while being molded into God’s image

    Join Carim on this great journey as He reaches the unsaved for Christ while continuing to encourage marriages and families.

    Read all our marriage articles on Jamaicans.com

    Visit the Marriage Vantage Point website for great resources to help you and your spouse.

    Listen to our weekly podcasts.

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  • CPL 2023: TKR edge Tallawahs in thriller

    CPL 2023: TKR edge Tallawahs in thriller

    Trinbago Knight Riders recorded a two-run win over defending champions Jamaica Tallawahs in the 2023 Republic Bank Caribbean Premier League (CPL).

    Jamaica Tallawahs won the toss and chose to field first, producing a disciplined bowling performance to restrict Trinbago Knight Riders to 142/8 after 20 overs.

    Kelvin Pitman, making his CPL debut, had an outstanding game as he took three wickets, including that of the opposing captain, Kieron Pollard.

    The Tallawahs would have a bright start to their chase but would lose four wickets in the first ten overs to find themselves in trouble.

    Waqar Salamkheil and Andre Russell would prove decisive, taking five wickets between them and restricting runs as the Tallawahs faltered to 139/7, losing by just two runs.

    The Jamaican franchise got off to an ideal start to the game, with experienced seamer Mohammad Amir delivering an opening maiden over.

    However, Openers Martin Guptil and Mark Deyal would bat through the powerplay and build a solid foundation for the Knight Riders innings with a 58-run partnership.

    The complexion of the tie would then wholly change as the Knight Riders lost three wickets, including that of Nicholas Pooran, for just five runs.

    On debut for the Tallawahs, Kelvin Pitman took two of those wickets within the same over in a brilliant display.

    The Knight Riders’ attempt to accelerate the scoring was derailed as they would lose five wickets in the last five overs to finish on 142/8.

    Jamaica Tallawahs opened their chase with captain Brandon King and Alex Hales, the duo also batting through the powerplay as they put on a 57 run partnership.

    Brandon King lost his wicket to the leg-spin of Salamkheil; Jermaine Blackwood was also dismissed four balls later to a super Nicholas Pooran catch, and when Shamarh Brooks departed the very next ball, the Tallawahs looked in trouble at 58/3.

    More wickets would tumble and despite a late flurry of runs from Chris Green and Imad Wasim, they would ultimately lose by two runs in a nail-biting finish.

    Trinbago Knight Riders will look to continue their winning form as they play their next four games in front of a home crowd. (CPLT20) 

  • CPL 2023: Gurbaz could join Amazon Warriors in Trinidad

    CPL 2023: Gurbaz could join Amazon Warriors in Trinidad

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    Pocket-rocket wicketkeeper/batsman Rahmanullah Gurbaz could join the Guyana Amazon Warriors for his second stint when the team travels to Trinidad and Tobago for the penultimate leg of the Republic Bank Caribbean Premier League.

    Presently, countryman Hazratullah Zazai is covering for him in the squad.

    The third leg in Barbados concludes on Sunday, and teams will travel on Monday to the Twin Island Republic, where matches start the following day at the Queen’s Park Oval.

    Gurbaz is currently competing for his native Afghanistan in the Asia Cup, co-hosted by Pakistan and Sri Lanka.

    Afghanistan’s final preliminary match is scheduled for September 5 against Sri Lanka, and should they not progress to the Super 4, Gurbaz would join the Warriors, according to the team’s manager, Leon Johnson.

    Effectively, he would be unavailable for the big clash against Trinbago Knight Riders on September 5, but could feature against Barbados Royals on September 10 at the Brian Lara Cricket Academy.

    Last season, Gurbaz played six matches for the Warriors and scored 157 runs at a strike rate of 140.17 with a highest score of 60.

    The 21-year-old has over 3,500 runs from 146 matches, with a lone century and 22 fifties. He strikes at 148.24.

  • CPL 2023: Kings reign supreme over Royals

    CPL 2023: Kings reign supreme over Royals

    The Saint Lucia Kings reclaimed the top spot in the Republic Bank Caribbean Premier League (CPL) with a dominant 90-run victory over the Barbados Royals.

    The Royals won the toss and opted to field first, but they were to run into Johnson Charles in imperious form. The opener blasted 78, and contributions at the back end saw the Kings post a healthy 195/6.

    In reply, the Royals’ chase was over before it began, as they lost the top five batters inside the PowerPlay. They never recovered from that huge setback and were eventually all out for 105.

    The Kings got their innings off to a tremendous start, led by the power of Johnson Charles.

    Having reached 69/0 at the end of the PowerPlay, the foundation was set for a huge total, and they were able to reach 97 before the loss of their first wicket, Colin Munro holing out to the deep square boundary for 33.

    Sean Williams’ stay at the crease was brief, but at the other end, Charles continued to make hay. Only when Jason Holder returned in the 16th over did the Kings’ momentum get momentarily halted. Two wickets in the over saw the departure of Shadrack Descarte and Charles himself for 78.

    However, quick-fire contributions at the death from Roshon Primus, Sikander Raza, and Roston Chase ensured the Kings set an imposing total.

    The Royals never got to grips with the chase and were effectively out of the contest by the end of the PowerPlay.

    Alzarri Joseph, Matthew Forde, and Roshon Primus were destroyers in chief as they ran through the top five batters to leave the Royals 40/5 at the end of the first six overs.

    Despite a few big hits from the lower middle order, the Royals suffered without a firm base to build from and eventually folded for 105 all out.

    The victory for the Kings sent them back to the top of the table, while the Barbados Royals will look to bounce back against St Kitts & Nevis Patriots in the last game of the Barbados leg. (CPLT20) 

  • Italian GP: Verstappen breaks record with 10th straight win

    Italian GP: Verstappen breaks record with 10th straight win

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    Leclerc sold the dummy to Sainz at the first chicane but the Spaniard moved to defend and Leclerc had to lock all his brakes and cut the chicane to avoid his partner. Leclerc crossed the line just 0.1secs behind.

    Mercedes’ George Russell drove a steady race to take fifth, while Lewis Hamilton impressed on an inverted strategy, starting on the hard tyre and switching to the medium, to pass the McLarens and Alex Albon’s Williams to take sixth.

    Hamilton earned a five-second penalty for colliding with McLaren’s Oscar Piastri when passing him at the second chicane but had enough of a margin to keep the place.

    Albon clung on ahead of McLaren’s Lando Norris, while Fernando Alonso had his most anonymous race of the season to take ninth in the Aston Martin ahead of Alfa Romeo’s Valtteri Bottas.

    Piastri had to pit to repair damage after the Hamilton incident and finished 12th behind Liam Lawson’s Alpha Tauri.

    Ferrari put up a strong fight against the all-conquering Red Bull team at their home race with by far their most competitive showing of the season.

    Their hope was for Leclerc, starting third, to pass Verstappen into the first corner and set up a one-two at the front of the field, from which they might be able to play strategy against Verstappen.

    But Verstappen made a strong start, and Sainz had to chop across quickly to prevent the Dutchman claiming the inside line for an attack at the first corner.

    The lead secured, Sainz was faced with a challenging opening stint trying to hold Verstappen off for as long as possible.

    Verstappen tracked the Ferrari, rarely more than 0.5secs behind. He tried the outside on lap six, only to be rebuffed, and complained to his team about the Ferrari’s straight-line speed.

    But eventually his pressure paid off. Sainz locked his right front wheel on the way into the first chicane at the start of lap 15, and that allowed Verstappen to get a better exit out of the corner.

    Verstappen drew alongside on the flat-out run through the Curva Grande and claimed the lead down the inside of the Roggia chicane.

    Once Verstappen was into the lead, the destiny of the race win was no longer in doubt – if it ever really had been – and the uncertainty was now over the remaining podium positions.

    Verstappen now leads Perez in the championship by 145 points as his third drivers’ title draws ever closer. (BBC Sport)

  • « Le PSG a-t-il suffisamment changé pour ne plus être ce club qui triomphe en été et déchante au printemps ? »

    « Le PSG a-t-il suffisamment changé pour ne plus être ce club qui triomphe en été et déchante au printemps ? »

    Pour ouvrir une nouvelle ère, le Paris Saint-Germain s’est donné une nouvelle équipe à l’occasion du marché des transferts. Cet été, il a peut-être enfin fait de bons choix, estime Jérôme Latta dans sa chronique.Pour ouvrir une nouvelle ère, le Paris Saint-Germain s’est donné une nouvelle équipe à l’occasion du marché des transferts. Cet été, […]

    L’article « Le PSG a-t-il suffisamment changé pour ne plus être ce club qui triomphe en été et déchante au printemps ? » est apparu en premier sur Radio Télévision Caraïbes.

  • US Open 2023 : la tenante du titre Iga Swiatek éliminée ; Novak Djokovic rejoint une garnison d’Américains en quarts de finale

    US Open 2023 : la tenante du titre Iga Swiatek éliminée ; Novak Djokovic rejoint une garnison d’Américains en quarts de finale

    La Polonaise a été battue en trois sets par la Lettonne Jelena Ostapenko en huitièmes de finale. Dans le tableau masculin, le Serbe a sorti le Croate Borna Gojo et affrontera en quarts de finale Taylor Fritz, l’un des trois Américains toujours en lice.La Polonaise a été battue en trois sets par la Lettonne Jelena […]

    L’article US Open 2023 : la tenante du titre Iga Swiatek éliminée ; Novak Djokovic rejoint une garnison d’Américains en quarts de finale est apparu en premier sur Radio Télévision Caraïbes.

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